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Thursday, January 13, 2011

Dating Tips

Dating Tips



How To Evaluate Dating Site Members Database Quality
Online dating is very profitable business for site owners and that's why every dating site trying to catch your attention by using numbers, advertising tricks and press-releases. Some dating sites offers millions profiles to search for, some offers some offers specialized dating like dating for pet owners or military dating. Every site trying to show how many members do they have and it should increase your success. But is there any connection between size database, its quality and your success? Have you ever thinked of this?

Team of researchers has shown in a recent study, this abundance of options may not make the chooser feel or choose any better than a pool of just a half dozen or so options. As the researchers explain, people tend to anticipate that they’ll feel better about “shopping for a mate” when there is a large number of options. However, in actuality, people feel equally good when faced with fewer options to choose. The scientists performed two experiments demonstrating this clash between anticipation and experience.
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Sex On The First Date: 30% of Women Having it
According to australian online dating service hookmeup.com.au 1/3 of women who meet men through online dating sites are having sex on the first date. Sex on the first date is not a big surprise because for many people (especially those who are young) sex on the first date is normal thing. But the most shocking fact is that 70% of these womn do not use condoms when they have sex on the first date as a new survey has found.

The American study which surveyed approximately 600 women also discovered 29% of those surveyed performed oral sex on the first date. A leading womens magazine in the US, said the results were alarming but not surprising.

Friday, December 17, 2010

My Girl Friends View of Our First Fuck

The Girl’s story. My view point to my first fuck

Over years, I had dreamt that one day I would meet a boy who would make me beg to fuck him. I would get wet thinking of such a circumstance. Yet, all I could do in my conservative home was to look out of the window and look at boys and later lock my room and masturbate.

In one early, humid and particularly dreadful summer, my family decided to drive down to the nearest sea resort. After we left our home town, I suggested to my Mother that we should swing by the town where one of my brother’s friend studied. May be we could pick him up and take him across to the sea resort for the holiday. We owed that to him since his family was known to us in some way.

I would be lying if I stated that I did not know that he had in the past looked at me askance and made it clear to me that he would actually give his right hand to fuck me. But, then he was very young. I was younger.

While we drove to the resort I sat with Ravi (that was his name) in the front seat and fought like two brats. We shoved and pushed and snatched and scratched each other. Most like two co-eds, who only teased each other. My Mother admonished me when the noise became too much between dropping off to sleep in the rattling car.

In reality I was scheming whether it were possible for me to seduce him and to fuck. I wondered, would his cock feel good? Would be make love or would he rape me? Would he fuck at all? Would he reject me? Would he prematurely squirt his sperm all over me? What did a full grown and erect cock look like? Did it taste good? Was it as nice to fuck as it was to masturbate?

In masturbation, there were no failures. Only success and pleasure.

Would he hurt me while fucking?

We reached later than sooner. We checked in with the extended family of 6 in a hotel with two rooms. The rooms were interconnected by a door. Immediately after reaching, Ravi said ‘I am going and changing’.

I went to the bathroom and lifted my petticoat and slowly ran my hand over my pussy and thought what it could look after a couple of fucks. I shivered at the though of being laid.

As per our norms I was not permitted to change into a swim suit. I had to do with the saree.

On the beach, I had to stay back in the shallows while the boys had fun. Some of the larger waves would lift me six inches above the ground and land me back. It was a slightly tipsy feeling.

Ravi came bye and teased me many times that I was chicken and that I just do not have the guts to get into a swimming costume and take a swim. May be I not have a good figure. May be I had nothing to show and thus hide!!!

I felt slighted. But told myself, “Just wait till you fuck me, you bastard”.

I schemed and went into deeper water and let the water throw me onto the floor. He rushed towards me and helped me get up. I let my breasts touch his legs as I was pulled up. He glanced at me and continued. I told myself “How do I tell him that I am aching for him”.

“He is so dumb. How does a girl say FUCK ME!!!”

My Mother saw this happening and called out me in her stentorian voice and asked me to go back to the hotel and become decent.

I saw it as a chance which would be wasted if I did not take Ravi along and try out my womanly guile to seduce him. Or to show him that I was a full hot blooded woman.

I asked my Mother whether any one could escort me back. My Mother looked and saw Ravi near enough and asked him to escort me back. After saying this, she simply sank back into the sand and looked into the sea.

On returning to the hotel with I went into my room and changed into dry clothes. While drying myself, I inadvertently dried my pussy also. Than I though, :Oh no.. I have spoilt is all for myself”.

I returned the room where he was but with hair open and wet. On returning I asked Ravi to help me dry my hair. Quite clinically, he picked up a large towel and rubbed my hair dry.

We then sat down and started to talk to each other. In order to egg him on more, I asked him impishly “What do you think of my figure? Is it that bad?”

He said “It is good”. I asked “Do you have steady girl friend?”. He said ‘No”. I thought “Shit he has not even kissed girl. What is he going to fuck?” I wanted more fucking experience.

I asked him why he was not changing into something dry. He said “I have nothing to change into!!”.

I teased him and said “Then get into nothing!!!”. And laughed.

Suddenly I remembered that after that fall on the beach she had sprained my ankle. I told him so. He looked concerned and asked whether he could massage it for me.

I told myself that he was too gentlemanly and that he would not catch me and kiss me or try to fuck me. I despaired.

He pulled a foot stool near, lifted my ankle softly and stared to massage my ankle.

Each time his hand would stray inched above the ankle I would feel electrified with desire.

I asked him “Would you mind massaging my leg”.

He primly massaged my calf and lower leg. All from over the saree. He was so good. I almost went to sleep.

Suddenly he shifted his position from the stool to the floor and started to relax his angle of massaging.

Ravi then asked me “Why don’t you lie down. I can then massage your calf better”.

I could feel his warm and firm hands holding my calf down and massaging my legs. It was both relaxing and exciting. No man had ever touched my legs.

The saree and the petticoat are large items and have folds all over. Sometimes the saree would get into a bundle and pinch my flesh. I would yelp “Ouch”.

Ravi asked “Why don’t I massage your back too?” I said “I will love it.”

He massaged the back of my thighs, the small of my back and my back. It was really relaxing.

He started to slowly massage the sides of my rib cage. His hands would brush my breasts and then go away. It was tantalizing.

A few times he would massage hard and the bra hook would bite into my back. I yelped “Ouch”.

Ravi made the first move. It took me by surprise. He said “Why don’t you just take off this silly thing you are wearing. I will massage you better without it”.

I kept quiet to see what he did.

He asked again. I did not reply.

Then I shyly said “ “Why don’t you take it off for me”.

Ravi turned me around onto my back effortlessly and pulled me into his arms and made me sit up. Put his arms around me and slowly unhooked the blouse one by one. He verrrry slowly peeled off my blouse and then very slowly unhooked my bra.

He slowly lifted off my bra from my breasts.

Did he gasp on seeing my beasts? I don’t know.

He slowly helped me lie down on my back. Turned me over again with one flip.

He was strong.

Ravi continued to massage my back. Once in a while he would lift me off the bed and firmly hold my breasts and squeeze them hard. It would hurt. But I liked it too. In all my masturbating, I did not know that it was nice to hurt a little.

Soon I was feeling raw on my back.

Ravi softly asked me “Should I apply some cream on your back?”

I nodded “Yes”.

He leant over the dresser and pulled the bottle of Nivea cream and started to apply cream on my back. That was soothing.

Once in a while he would lift me up and apply cream to the sides of my breasts.

Suddenly he stopped. I looked at him and could see the bulge on his crotch. Seeing me peeking, Ravi caught me and turned me over.

My proud and swollen breasts were looking up. He took some more cream on his palms and started to apply cream on my face and on all but my breasts.

I could make out, he was teasing me. Tantalizing me. I decided to wait and see what he did.

Each time he came near my breasts, I would arch my back and hope that he would fondle them, he would not and leave them. He would slow down as if to softly cup them and excite me. The anticipation exited me more. I was hot.

I could feel my pussy wet and hot and eager.

He suddenly said “ “You are beautiful. You have beautiful breasts’.

I kept quiet for a while and the decided to go for it and asked “Aren’t you having a hard on?”.

Ravi asked “Where?”

I shifted and firmly said “Stand up”.

Ravi looked worried. May be he had gone too far.

I took matters onto my hands and sat up. I put my hand on his waist band and said, “This is wet and must go”. I unhooked Ravi’s shorts, unbuttoned all the silly buttons in a hurry, pulled the zip of my shorts and pulled his shorts down with one swoop.

Not waiting for him to react, I then hooked her forefingers into his jocks and pulled it down.

Ravi’s cock jumped out. It was huge. Hard and erect.

Ravi tried to cover his cock. I softly moved his palms away and held his strong and erect cock in my hands and said “Why are you so shy? Let me see it”.

I held it firmly and pulled the foreskin back. I leant over and smelt the cock with its pre-cum. It smelt heavenly. I brought my face near to smell it. But I felt like kissing it. I did not wait. I kissed its tip.

Ravi appeared shy. I boldly suggested to him that if he was so shy, why didn’t he take off my clothes. The we would be equally clothed?

He hesitated and said something. I did not hear it. My head was dizzy with thoughts of how I would be fucked soon.

To goad him further, I insulted him by adding “Wouldn’t you like to see my entire body? What I look like? Do you think I have all the things that you think a full blooded girl should have?” She added “May be you like the girl to take command”.

Ravi looked a little peeved. He smiled and answered back firmly ‘No. That is wrong. I like to take command.”

I mumbled “Then take me over!!!!”

Suddenly it appeared to me that my years of prayers had come true. He roughly caught me by my hairs and pulled me down on the bed. All my soft noises of how it hurt me did not work any more.

He said once again firmly “Now I will tell you what to do. Do you understand? You will not touch me here (pointing at his swollen and hard cock) Any mistakes will be met with ruthlessness”.

I melted under his demanding approach to my sexiness.

I waited to see what he did next. I though he would catch me and rape me. But he did not.

He dropped a glob of cream onto his palm and applied it to my breasts. In round swirling motion he applied the cream. A little more cream and a little more of massaging my whole upper body.

She looked at me and said “Okay”.

I waited when he would make me fully naked and would fuck. Each time, while massaging his fingers slid below the drawstring of my petticoat I would arch her back up a little.

I truly wanted him.

His cock was erect and jumping. Yet he was controlled.

He then stopped massaging and started to get closer to me. He pulled off his vest and kissed me on my face. He bit my lips and drove his tongue once in a while into my mouth. While he did that, he fondled my breasts. Quite suddenly he lifted himself up from the position and parted my legs as much as he could. I thought this was it.

But no. He slowly lowered himself between my legs and brought his mouth near my nipples. He swirled his tongue teasingly over each nipple one by one.

My hands instinctively ran over his hair and I moaned with pleasure and anticipation of the impending sweet fuck.

He growled, “Take your hands away”. He caught my hands and pinned them above my head and continued to lick and suck the nipples.

In order to lift me by my sides he took his hand off my wrists and lifted me up. My head fell backwards.

I was lifted off the bed. He started to suck my breasts deeply.

My hands were free. I just could not help it. My hands went for his cock. I held it and started to caress it.

This time he was angry. He commanded me “Leave my cock alone”.

He lifted me up again and started to kiss my whole body madly and violently.

Suddenly he stopped and with a naughty look said “I will not kiss any covered area”. I offered “Let me take the saree off”.

Ravi answered back “What?? You will take it off????. You are mine and you have to take my permission”.

I realized that he was the lord and master of my pussy and that he would call the shots. But still to tease him I said “Or else??? What!!!”.

Ravi got up, distanced himself first, then brought his cock close to my mouth and said, “I wont fuck you”.

I protested at his notion that he decided who would fuck me.

Ravi caught me by my hair and dragged my head up near his cock. I thought he wanted me to suck it. I opened my mouth and was about to close my lips around his hard and big cock, when he slapped me lightly on my face.

Ravi dragged my face up more and started to kiss me deeply and violently. Ravi then told me “You ever tell me something like that, I will not fuck you till you beg.”

Suddenly, Ravi dropped me on the bed and walked away. I thought now what.

He sat down next to me and looked at my wet body with my saree crumpled near my knees. One knee was crooked away from the body, the other leg straight. My hands above my head and my swollen breasts looking up with pride.

I could not take his looking any more. I wanted more. What was he thinking? Some plan?

Ravi got up and walked away with his huge cock in front of him.

A few moments later I said “Why don’t you come back and do what you were doing?” Ravi asked whether I was pleading for the fuck. I said in desperation “Yes. Please come. Do what you want to.”

Instead of picking me up and ripping my saree off, Ravi walked away. He went to the fridge and took out the ice tray.!!! I

I thought, “Oh God. Ice torture ahead for me”.

I asked “What are you doing?”

Ravi did not reply. He also took out the butter tray and walked back. “What is he going to do?” I thought.

I again asked “What are you doing?”

Ravi naughtily answered back “I think you need some treatment. Just keep quite and enjoy”.

He sat himself on the bed. Slowly grasped my waist and lowered his mouth onto my navel.

He was tender yet strong. No stopping him. I only Oohed and Aahed.

Slowly he lowered his hand towards my drawstring and inserted his fingers in. The fingers came very close to my pubic hair. I was far too excited with the thought of myself being felt where it mattered. He slowly removed his hands from under my petticoat. While taking his hands out he pulled my drawstrings out.

He started to tease my navel while feigning to pull the drawstring. I arched and expected to be made naked. Yet he did not.

Suddenly he took the largest pillow and placed it under my head and raised my head. He told me “I want you to see what is done to you”.

Slowly he pulled the cord. I tried to hold his wrists in mock modestly. I said “No please don’t”.

Ravi asked me “Will you simply let me do what I want to or do I do something else?’. He simply said “Put your hands away. Just watch what I do to you and enjoy. If you try to stop me I have some special treatment for you”.

I asked “Like what?”.

Ravi said “I will tie you, beat you and then fuck dry you many times. Do you understand”.

He caught my hands and pulled them up.

He then put his palms below my buttocks and raised my hips. He raised my hips almost a feet up from the bed and kissed my pussy from over the saree.

He lowered me down and loosened the petticoat.

He again left me and started to massage my legs from below. Slowly he lifted my saree all the way up.

He took a handkerchief and placed it over my pussy. With my lifted head I could see he massaged all around the pussy bet never touched the pussy.

He signaled to me to raise my buttocks. He slowly started to pull off the saree. I tried to hold his wrists. He was angry. He said “I am playing with your pussy you bitch. Your hands will not move from here. Do you understand?”

I kept quiet

Ravi took up one ice cube and held it over me. The cold water dripped down over me drop by drop. My stomach started to have cramps. This was too much of sexual arousal. . Ravi ran the cube directly over my body over the stomach and then over towards my crotch. He ran it directly towards my slightly open crack.

Ravi slowly and deliberately removed the kerchief from my pussy. I was totally naked.

He caught me by my ankles and started to part my legs. He lifted the legs up and bent the knees back, as if I was squatting. Then he pushed my knees apart as far as he could.

I brought my hands down and tried to hold his cock and guide it into my pussy. I said “Fuck me”.

He pushed my hands away and started to slowly touch my clit.

He lowered his face into my open pussy and played with my clits with his tongue. That was too much. I said “That hurts”.

Ravi stopped and withdrew his face and asked “How would you like to be fucked?”

I pleaded “Any way you like. But just fuck me soon”.

Ravi asserted “I am the boss. I will fuck you when I like. The way I like and as many times I like”.

I kept quiet. Ravi picked up some more cream and started to massage my inner thighs and my buttocks.

Slowly he applied the cream into my pussy lips and then on my hole.

He then took some butter and applied it over my clit and then into my hole.

Ravi lifted my legs towards my chest and slowly applied the cream into my arse. I was tensed immediately. I though “God he will bugger me as well”.

I said “I am a virgin you know”. Ravi asked “You want to remain a virgin?”.

I pleaded “No. Just fuck me NOW”

Ravi slowly lowered himself between my open legs and took his hands from between my legs and held my wrists down. He started to eat my pussy with all the butter. He was licking it all up as if he was hungry. All I could do was to squirm and moan.

I started having my first shuddering orgasm.

The bastard was masturbating me. While I was having my first climax, I went on saying all the dirty words I could think off. I went on saying “Please fuck me”.

When it wore away, I was sore. I wanted to rest a little. So I started to push his hand away.

Ravi sternly asked “What is your problem? You can’t take an instruction?”

I saucily said “No”. I added for good measure “If you want tie my hands up!!”.

Ravi got up. Took my crumpled petticoat from the floor, pulled the drawstring out and roughly caught my wrists and tied them together. He pulled up my wrists to the bedpost and tied them to the wrought iron railing on top.

Having tied my hands up he again lowered himself onto my pussy. He pulled my complete back off the bed and sat below it with his legs splayed. My pussy was not only up, it was open and I could stop nothing.

While I fought him, he simply went on licking and sucking my pussy.

All I could say was “Oooh – Aaah . . .”

I simply had quick second orgasm.

Ravi kept me back on the bed.

He dug up some more butter and applied it liberally on his fingers.

Ravi the sat between my wide open legs and applied the butter on my pussy.

He said “I will now have breakfast on the pussy”.

He proceeded to knead some butter into and around my pussy. My clitoris was hot and red.

Once more butter was applied; he then lowered his face on to my pussy and started to lick every corner of my pussy.

I had a very quick third orgasm.

I was really raw. Ravi simply dipped his finger into the butter and started to probe my virgin hole.

I cried out in slight pain and said “It hurts”.

Ravi took his time. He teased my pussy while slowly getting me ready for breaking my hymen.

The he parted my knees as wide as he could and lowered his face onto my clit. While he licked it, he slowly pushed hard and harder onto my hymen.

Then suddenly, he pushed one strong finger hard into my hymen.

It broke. It did not hurt that much. Besides, it was so much of pleasure.

Ravi pulled his finger out, applied more butter on it and stared to slowly finger fuck me.

First he was slow and rhythmic. Then he became erratic and I did not know hen the next thrust would come.

Sunday, December 12, 2010

How to Kiss a Boy for the First Time

1 Keep your breath fresh. Make sure to brush your tongue each time you brush your teeth, and do both regularly. Drinking lots of water also helps. If you'll be meeting your guy later, avoid foods with powerful odors like garlic and onions. For a quick freshness boost, keep mints handy but remember that those are only aides to support the good habits above.

2 Signal to your guy that you feel close to him. Try things like: smiling and laughing in conversation, touching his arm and hair, or leaning your head on his shoulder.


3 Start slowly. Send nonverbal signals to let him know what you're thinking, such as: leaning in towards him or holding his hand and gently tugging it toward you. Don't hesitate to lean into a hug.

4 Wait for him to respond. If he matches your action, that's the signal he's ready. If he doesn't lean in toward you or turns his head away, the time isn't right. Do not force the kiss on him; it may make it tougher to get a second kiss.
5 Kiss the guy. Start with a short, closed-mouth kiss. If he responds well, do another short kiss. Continue this, gently and as long as he's still into it feel free to start making your kisses longer. Don't try to move too fast; your guy could misinterpret your intentions and try to get more physical than you're ready for at the time.
6 How far will you go? Don't expect too much on your first kiss. A short closed-mouth kiss is a great start. Several is even better. If it goes further than that, congratulations! As long as your guy is responding positively, you can continue to get closer. Open your mouth slightly and see if he does the same. Even if you move to the open-mouth kiss, don't use your tongue for a while. It's a whole separate step.
7 If you've been open-mouth kissing for a little while, you can try using your tongue. First, gently touch your tongue to his lips as a signal that you want to use your tongue. If he does the same, that's his signal that it's okay. Start tracing your tongue slowly and softly over his lips. Make sure any contact between your tongue and his is soft. As you continue to kiss, you can slowly increase the force of your tongue.
8 Throughout the kissing, make sure your hands match what your lips are doing. For short kisses, you could hug him and put your hands around his shoulders. As the kisses get longer and open mouth begins, "safe" areas like arms, shoulders, chest, and legs below the knee are okay. Touching his face at this point is also good. As you start with the tongue, you can include the waist, the legs just above the knee, and maybe his hair.
9 Make sure you and this person have the same feelings for each other. You don't want him thinking you're weird. If you aren't dating, make sure he's single.

Thursday, December 9, 2010

Interesting Questions to ask Your Girlfriend or any Girl

Interesting Questions to ask Your Girlfriend or any Girl

What is your full name?
When is your birthday?
Who do you live with?
What do you do for school and work?
What music do you listen to the most?
Do you like to read? If so...favorite book(s)?
Name your 3 closest friends. Which one is your very best friend?
How often do you really "go out"?
Have you ever lost anyone you loved?
Ever been in true love?
On a scale of 1-5 how organized are you?
Do you excercise regularly? If so, how often?
What is your zodiac sign?
Have any nick names? If so, what?
Name a couple of T.V. shows you watch a lot?


Good First Date Questions to ask Girls, Your Girlfriends

Name a movie or movies you can watch over and over?
Do you have tattoos? If yes, how many and where are they?
Any piercings? If yes, how many and where are they?
Do you have siblings? If so, how many?
Are your parents still together?
What is/was your worst subject in school?
Do you currently play any sports? If so, what?
Do you like to dance?
Name your 2 favorite colors and why?
Do people tell you that you act older, younger, or your age?
Ever had an imaginary friend as a child?
Ever been skinny dipping?
Did/Do you enjoy highschool for the most part?
Do any drugs? If yes, what?
Do you drink? If yes, how often?
Do you smoke? If yes, how much?
Ever been in a physical fight? If yes how many and who were they with?
Have you ever cheated in a relationship?

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Thursday, December 2, 2010

10 Mistakes Women Make With Men

10 Mistakes Women Make With Men



It is rightly said that men are from Mars and women are from Venus. Yet, they share a strong magnetic attraction for each other. As for men, you can’t live with them or without them. Annoying as they may be, nobody can deny the kind of excitement they bring into a woman’s life. You may bump into a prospective guy at a club and numbers are exchanged. A few dates later (which you thought were perfect) he dumps you! Wondering why? Here is a list of 10 mistakes women commonly make with men.

1. Being Too Available

It is important to be there for him; however, being available all the time is a strict no-no. Chances are that he will take you for granted in the long run. You may also come across as a desperate woman trying really hard for him. Men tend to get attracted to girls who are a little challenging to get. Show him that you also have a lot in life besides him.

2. Being Impractical

Many women live in a fairyland, where they assume their man to be their Prince Charming. He’s not going to be the most perfect man in the world and most importantly, he’s not going to be flawless. Everyone has some negative aspects in them, so you need to accept him along with his shortcomings.

3. Being Too Honest Too Soon

Never be too honest very soon. Don’t go about sharing intimate details on the first date itself. You may just bore your date. Getting to know each other should be step by step. It takes time. Besides, men also tend to find women who are not very open about themselves in the initial stages very interesting and with an aura of mystery about them.

4. Being Too Gullible

Trust is important. However, don’t ever trust anyone blindly in the ‘getting-to-know’ stage. It does not mean that you go about showing them you are suspicious. It’s just that you shouldn’t simply believe every word they say. Men tend to flatter women to appear charming. They may also put up a false front to appear more appealing. It is necessary to keep your eyes and ears open in order to catch the fake from the real ones. Girls have a very strong sixth sense. Let that little wiggle in you guide your way.

5. Being A Control Freak

Don’t be so obsessed of taking charge all the time. Be it planning for a date or making reservations, sometimes it is fine to sit back and let the man do the work. It helps to boost their male ego and makes them feel powerful by taking care of you. But if you go about being a control freak and taking total charge of their lives, it may just scare them away.

6. Pretending To Be Someone Else

Never ever pretend. Men hate women who are fake and are afraid to be themselves. Being comfortable in your own skin by itself is a turn on. Always be proud about the person you are and never feel ashamed about yourself. Just be yourself and you will just do fine. At the end of the day even if the relationship doesn’t work, why would you want to be with someone who doesn’t accept you the way you are? In such a case, even if the relationship works, it would take a toll on you pretending to live up to his expectations all the time. It is the best option to let him have a glimpse of the true you at the very beginning.

7. Expecting The Man To Make The First Move

Whoever laid down the rule that the man has to make the first move? Research reveals that men find women who make the first move very appealing. It shows their high level confidence and independence which are two big turn-on’s among women.

8. Being Too Feminine

Men hate women who get angry for small things, always fuss over their weight, makeup and other such sissy topics. They prefer someone they can identify with and feel comfortable around. Overreacting for everything around you, talking non-stop and most of all whining about absolutely everything will make him feel that he is stuck a total bimbo. If he is among the 99% of men who are looking out for brains over beauty, you are sure to be dumped!

9. Overdressing

When you are going out on a date make it a point to never ever over dress. It is true that men are attracted to women to dress up well; however, they cannot stand a woman with a loud dressing sense. Don’t dress up so much also that you end up looking like a Christmas tree. He may just feel embarrassed to even walk with you. Also keeping your makeup minimalistic is something that you should keep in my. Remember that good clothes and makeup just enhance your beauty and not substitute it. Going over the top would give the message that you are not confident of yourself.

10. Getting Intimate too soon

Intimacy requires to be carried out on a very slow pace. Getting physically intimate too fast may result in the man in getting wrong ideas about you. It is also possible that, you may come across as ‘too available’. Men like women who are hard to get. So take your time and get to know each other before taking a step further.

If you follow all these rules and still don’t manage to get the guy, it’s his loss! Be ready to move on and get that Prince Charming for yourself.

What are you looking for in men?
Girls who are confused about what they are looking for in their ideal man must try this love quiz.

Wednesday, December 1, 2010

SANDY SHARMA LOVE TIPS

Tips for successfully Approaching Women for a First Time Date
Successfully approaching a woman for the first time can be the most difficult task for many people. Guys who are very shy, find it very difficult to approach the women they like. Some boys are also very scared of rejection from the women they love. They are not bold enough to muster up the courage to approach any woman.

So now let us discuss some of the most essential tips for approaching a woman for the first time.

1.Be confident
The most important thing that one should keep in mind while approaching a women is to be very confident and bold. Women hate those men who are too shy or serious. Have ample of confidence in your self to face rejection. If you are scared of rejection then you would never be able to approach any women.

2.Do not be too desperate
While approaching a woman you should not act too desperately. Do not be too out spoken while expressing your liking for a particular woman. Handle every situation very peacefully and calmly. If you have a crush on a certain girl then try to express your feeling for her in a gentle way. If you will become too desperate then you will never succeed in any relationship.

3.Try to maintain eye contact
If you love a girl then try to maintain a healthy eye contact with her. By doing this you can easily express your feelings and emotions to her. A healthy eye contact will bring you closer to the person you admire and like. If you will use a strong eye contact then a girl will feel more attracted and drawn towards you.

4.Take genuine interest in her
If you really admire a girl and want to successfully approach her, then you should take a genuine interest in all her activities. Women are easily attracted to men who have the same views and thoughts. You should take the advantage of every possible thing that would bring you closer to her. Indulge in some activity that would prove that you are really compatible to the woman you admire. While you are in her company, talk about your common interests and goals.

5.Try to express your liking by performing thoughtful gestures
If you really want to make your beloved aware of your feelings for her, then you should perform some thoughtful gestures. Help her to carry her books, open the door for her and always be very polite to her. This is the most important tip for approaching any women. These gestures will bring you more close to the girl you like.

These are few of the most important tips to successfully approach a woman for the first time.